My Solution To Teen Pregnancy

Everyone has a solution and truth be told some of them seem unrealistic to me. I am realistic enough to accept the fact that kids will always have babies before they are ready. Hell I know several people over the age of 21 who have no business having children but they do.Worse yet they are married and everything society says makes good parents and they end up being crappy parents. I am still shocked the hospital let me bring my daughter home.I am 35 and still think what the hell am I doing on a regular basis. So I can only imagine what it is like for a 14 year old girl who doesn't even know who she is as a person yet. Sorry but until you are 30 you really have no clue who you are as a person. Your views change and quite frankly you have no life experience. Plus when mommy and daddy are financing you.. you have no clue what choices you will make to support yourself. My daughter kicks my ass on a regular basis. She has left me completely baffled on what to do. I would like to think the sleep deprivation is how she manages to leave me stumped. I just can't accept the fact that she is smarter than me. The scary part is I thought I knew what I was getting into. All I can is I was not in any way prepared. So I will warn my daughter to stay a way from hot men and Jaeger. I plan on teaching her about birth control because well it seems dumb not to. Plus it seems pretty obvious that she is going to know that I had sex before I was married. I am not even going to attempt to hide that because its a waste of time. Most importantly I am a horrible liar. So my plan is for when she is about 12 is to borrow a baby at least every six months for a minimum of four hours. Truth be told the doll that schools lend out just doesn't cut it for me. It seems easy compared to an actual baby. By the way she won't be babysitting just any baby but one that got shots the day before. I want her to experience the worst time to be around a baby. There is nothing worse than a cranky miserable baby. The day after shots makes me wonder what in the hell was I thinking. I seriously consider shooting myself. It is the hardest day. It is almost impossible to make them happy. I honestly believe there will be a few less babies having babies if we take the glamour out of it. It isn't fun being a parent. It is a whole lot of work and if you think you know how much is involved beforehand. Not to sound like an old person but you're wrong its more work than you ever thought possible. I am also going to tell my daughter not to even waste her time having sex while she is in junior high or high school. Truth be told boys don't even know what they are doing at the age.Most importantly they don't care if you are actually enjoying it. The only good part about boys at that age is its over before you know what even happened. So is changing all of your hopes and dreams really worth two minutes of your day. I hope my daughter doesn't make me a grandmother until after she has graduated medical school. I honestly believe that most of these girls have babies way too soon because they want unconditional love. Which is unfair and a burden no one should be born with. It is a parents job to give to unconditional love not an innocent baby.